basically this. I know this thread is going to be a shit show but I just want to throw in my 2cents.
I dont mind chubby girls at all in general, I think some of them are really cute. But I do not exactly agree with HAES type logic, if someone is severely overweight I do think they should be trying to correct their health for the better. Like 600lb life is not healthy yo.
I do think its totally OK for larger people to wear what they want (if it fits, please lord wear what fits for your body). Im really bad at conveying my thoughts but basically if a fat person feels like shit and is depressed, wearing a giant moo moo isnt going to boost their confidence. Which can lead to more depression, rut, staying the same weight etc. But if they are wearing clothes that fit them and make them feel good it can be helpful to put them in a better mood to help them lose weight. I think for the most part positive encouragement is the way to go for losing weight instead of negative reinforcement. Negatives just make them feel shittier and leads to more emotional eating and not having the confidence to exercise.