>>10911016I'm no expert but I have three mentally disabled regular customers, all guys. Of the two almost nonverbal ones, one is a boy who dresses and has a hairstyle like a girl, he wears mostly pink stuff, fleece with pink rainbow unicorns, etc, but he's apparently not transgender. The other mostly nonverbal one likes anything dangly you can turn into a keychain, even if it's literal garbage. The third is fully verbal and loves soft stuff, and you can't wear sweatshirts around him because he'll cling to your arms and feel your arms up because he finds them so soft. Lolita has some of those aspects.
In my personal experience with lolita years ago, I met way more people with abusive families than anything (I mean actually abusive, like CPS was involved).