He treats his wives ;like he treats his employees. In other words, he doesnt pamper them or feel the need to be chivalrous. Elon Musk is all about building a team and contributing to the greater good or a goal, even in his relationships. In spite of muh empowerment meme, feminists dont like it when men like Musk treat their wives like how youd treat anyone who doesnt deserve unconditional love. I guess to them its sexist to treat women like how a women would treat a men.